I'm not
guilty and there is no condemnation waiting for me. I am free,
sanctified, acceptable, righteous, blameless and holy because of
Christ. I will be made alive at the resurrection. I am a new
creation that has received God's righteousness and am one in Christ
with all believers. I am blessed abundantly with every spiritual
blessing through him. I am a child of the one, true, King. My sins
are taken away, I am forgiven and under Christ's authority I belong
to God, marked by the Holy Spirit and have been raised up to sit with
Christ in glory. I am God's work of art and near him always. I
share in the promise of blessings because of Christ. And because of
Christ I can come boldly, with freedom and confidence into the
presence of God. I am a member of the church, the hands and feet of
Jesus. I am complete and set free from my sinful nature. I will
have eternal glory because I have confessed with my mouth that Jesus
is Lord and believe in my heart that God raised him from the dead.
The wonderful thing is, this can be your identity too.
I've been meaning to share this for a while. Not the Fleetwood Mac song...this!
It's my daily devotion from last Sunday. I've been reading Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.
This challenged me, but at the same time filled me with hope and joy. Most specifically, the line " Instead of approaching the day as a blank page...try living it in a responsive mode..." I have always looked at each new day as a clean slate, a blank page for me to write my history on. The key being "for me to write". What I find so amazing is that, I don't have to write any of it. I can choose to seek God and His will, He's got a perfect plan for my life. Plans to prosper me and to give me a future and a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11) Now, I can definitely choose to write my days for myself, I can choose to go my own way. (See what I did there? Fleetwood Mac FTW!) But why would I do that? Ephesians 2:8-10 tells me that I have been saved by amazing grace, through faith in Jesus Christ, to do good works...wait for it...that God has prepared in advance for me to do! If God has prepared the events of our days, to orchestrate the future and hope He has for us, why should we struggle to write things ourselves? Romans 8:28 says that if we love Him and are called according to His purpose, living in His will for us, that He works ALL things together for our good. ALL things.
How much more peace could you have in your life if you "let go and let God"? What are some things you can do today, in this moment to live in a responsive way to God and His plan for you? How does that challenge you?
When you tell a story, the best place to start is at the beginning. So...
I was born on a cold, February morning 28 years ago yesterday. Actually, I don't know if it was cold. I'm just assuming it was...being February and all. This day, my birthday, has always been very special to me (as I'm sure most of you are partial to your own birthdays). Growing up, my mom always made our birthdays (my brothers and I) as special as possible. You were literally king/queen for a day, every detail of the day was dictated by you. Occasionally, the power went to my head. Like the year my poor parents had to take me and every girl in my fourth grade class to Chuck E. Cheese. My parents are saints. I have had so many memorable birthdays I could tell you about. Like the one where my ninja of a cat swooped down and stole my best friend's hot dog without even touching the bun. Coolest cat...ever. But, I'd like to fast forward a few years to my 27th birthday, which is where this story really begins.
Last year for my birthday, I decided I wanted to perform a number of random acts of kindness equal to my age. I read about a woman who did that and thought it was such a fantastic idea. I am all about paying it forward, I have been shown too much mercy, grace, love, and kindness in my life to not do that. I worked by myself last year and I was only able to accomplish about 8 out of 27 things I wanted to do. So, this year I decided I wanted to do the same thing. It started out as just myself trying to do all 28 random acts myself again. Then, I remembered last year. So I had the thought of getting my small group at church involved. Then I dreamed bigger. I created an event on Facebook (Project 28...I'm clever, but not that clever) and invited my entire Facebook network to participate. I fully only expected maybe 4 people to RSVP, my hopes weren't too high. I prayed over it and gave it to God. And what do you think he did? Proved me wrong! Other friends started inviting their friends and He had nearly 50 people RSVP and take a step out to love on their communities and the people around them. God is so cool! Is it any wonder why I love Him so much?
As part of the project, I asked everyone to please share what they did and why they chose to do it. My intent is to share these stories with this man's family. Ryan Woods passed away in November of last year, and this is his story. Please take the time to watch it. I hope to be able to finish my race like him.
Now, I can't ask everyone else to share what they did and not tell them what I did to love people today. So here it is!
My day started out at church. I teach a kindergarten Sunday school class and my sweet middle school assistant gave me a coupon for a free drink in the cafe at church. When I went downstairs I gave it to the woman at the register, explained what I was doing, and told her to use it for the next person in line. That was the first of many stunned, disbelieving looks I received. Then, after an AMAZING lunch at Beijing Grill and Sushi Bar (if you ever find yourself in Southern Indiana near the town of Sellersburg...go there. You will not be disappointed. Amazing food AND the most amazing and hospitable staff I have ever seen in my life. The owner entertained my friend's small children so she could actually eat a meal. This woman got down on the floor and played with them. I am a customer for life), my friend and I found the nearest Girl Scout Troop selling cookies and between the two of us we purchased 14 boxes of cookies for strangers. Who could say no to free Girl Scout Cookies? The girls and their parents/troop leaders were beside themselves and didn't know what to think. I also got to witness someone paying it forward at this point too. After I bought cookies for a man, he handed over some cash for the next person's cookies. I parted ways with my friend and proceeded to the Meijer grocery store to purchase a few supplies for some other deeds I had planned. Here, I left pennies on the Penny Pony and filled the slots on all the gumball machines with quarters. From here, I met up with a couple of friends at Panera Bread to chat and have coffee drinks. When I left them, I headed to my local hospital. I dropped off a small bouquet at the nurses station in the maternity ward and asked them to give it to someone they thought would really appreciate them. At first, they thought I was creepy, then after explaining what I was doing they cried. One of the nurses actually told me she had heard about what I was doing on Facebook!!!! I then went to the pediatric unit and left a few coloring books and crayons for them to give to the kids in the unit. I made those nurses cry too. Which made me get all misty. Before leaving the hospital, I taped baggies of quarters to all the vending machines and a few newspaper boxes as well. I then went to my favorite local coffee shop to purchase some tea, here I left a message on a post-it note stuck the bathroom mirror. It said "There could never be a more beautiful you!" When I got back to my car, the song I stole that line from was playing! Coincidence...I don't think so! Then finally, on a trip to Wal-Mart to buy a grapefruit and fake mustaches (don't ask) I stopped by the $5 movie bin and happened to find one of my favorite kid's movies, Matilda. I taped $5 dollars to the back of it and stuck it back in the bin.
So, I would definitely say that this birthday was the best one I have had yet. Not only did I get to bless others, and get other people on board to do it as well, I too received so many blessings today. I can do nothing except praise God and give all the glory to Him. He can do immeasurably more than any of us could ever dream, and I know that all of the random acts of kindness performed today will be more far reaching than we will ever know in this life.
Like most humans, I do my best pondering in the shower. I don't know if it's the hot water and steam, or the amazing smell of my shampoo, but when I step in and close the curtain my head is cleared and I am just able to think and wonder at all God has done and all He has planned for His creation. Yesterday was no exception.
As I was going about my daily routine, the scripture of Psalm 34:8 popped into my head: "Taste and see that the Lord is good", then the scripture of Matthew 5:13-16 came to mind as well. This scripture is from The Sermon on the Mount, and at this particular point Jesus was telling his followers about being the salt and light of the world. I just kept ping-ponging (pretty sure I just invented a new verb there) back and forth between the two. It went something like this:
Taste and see...
Salt and light...
Taste and see...
Salt and light...
Taste and see...
Salt and light...
BINGO! (insert light bulb here)
Salt adds flavor, a bit of depth to a dish. It enhances the taste. Light provides illumination to us, it allows us to see. How can the world taste and see that the Lord is good, unless we provide some salt and light? I believe that people not only experience God through personal relationship with him, made possible through the sacrifice of Jesus, but also through us. His chosen people, who have received the gift of the Holy Spirit. I think this is why we are called to be salt and light, so that others can taste and see that the Lord is good. Matthew 5:16 explains clearly why we are to be the salt and light, so that others may see what we do and praise our Father in Heaven. So that they can taste and see.
I'm not a scholar, I haven't exhaustively studied scripture. I'm just a believer who loves God more than I ever have in my life. I may be way off base on this, but I don't think I am.
It's Friday...and that means a fresh batch of fun from The Brighter Side. I know I normally post this first thing in the morning, but I was busy. Snoozing.
So here are my five favorite things from this week in no particular order, as always, everything is pinned here:
Zooey Deschanel on being a woman. Love me some Zooey!
One of my fave bands, Relient K is back in the studio. This is a little diddy they cooked up for you. And honestly, the 90s was the best decade for music.
Ladies, don't even try and tell me you don't have one of these boards on Pinterest.
This made my day. I love Disney movies, and creative Halloween costumes that are Disney themed are my cup of tea for sure.
My fifth and final fave this week? Thursday. Not only did we have some amazing spring weather in the middle of February, I also got to take my god children to the circus. It was a blast! I'm to blessed too be stressed! Have a fantastic weekend!
I try not to get too deep and personal in this space because I don't necessarily want the blog to read like a diary. Plus, this would be the most boring diary ever if I did.
"Dear Diary,
Today I went to work. After work I went the library to study. When I left the library to go to the gym, I saw a puppy..."
You get the idea. Today, however, I feel a pull on my heart to share something with you. To be transparent and open my heart to you. I have a sneaking suspicion that many of you may wrestle with this too.
My biggest fear, and secret that I hold closest to my heart, is that the desires of my heart are not going to be part of God's will for my life. It's not like I want bad or selfish things, I just wonder if my heart isn't aligned to God's will sometimes because these things seem to keep passing me by. Or worse, they seem to be just out of reach constantly. It's frustrating and even heart breaking at times. And I'm scared to want these things, and hope for them, and pray for them only for them to not be part of the plan. It's silly and slightly selfish, I know. I feel it nonetheless. Sometimes my faith isn't as strong as I think it is.
A friend shared this song with me today:
A particular lyric really stuck with me: "What I need is for You to be the thing I need." It is something that my heart so earnestly prays for, and it goes hand in hand with this fear I have. I want God to replace the desires of my heart, innocent as they are, with only a desire for Him. To glorify Him and know Him more. I know that if the Lord is the desire of my heart, I will never be disappointed. I will never have to wonder if my heart is in the right place.
When I started writing this, I immediately turned to Psalm 37. I just want to share with you the bits that jumped out at me most. They were things like "Do not fret", "Trust in the Lord", "Delight yourself in the Lord", "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him". It's pretty amazing how my Father knows exactly what I need to hear.
I'm blogging again, and it's Friday. You know what that means. Five Fave Friday in full effect! Five Fave Friday is where I share my top 5 favorite things for the week, mostly things that I have found on the Internet. Most of these things can be found pinned to my Pinterest board of the same name here. This week has brought me so many good things! A new position at work, new friends, an awesome thunder-blizzard (you may not know it, but I LOVE snow), opportunities to invest in people, and a slightly clearer focus on this season of my life (because Christians love calling our life stages "seasons"). It has just been an all around amazing week, and it started so humbly. Oh! And I now haveFOURpeople following my little blog! You guys are awesome. I'm truly blessed.
This weeks five faves seem to have a lot to do with Youtube. Here they are, in no particular order:
This little dude is just pure awesome. It will make your day. Be sure to subscribe to the Youtube Channel. Thanks to my friend for sharing this with me.
The person who did this is a genius.
This is Willie Moore Jr. and he is hilarious. This video is so funny, and it has a fantastic moral message. Trust me. Almost as good as Kid President. Almost. Be sure to subscribe to his Youtube Channel too. Thanks to one of my other friends for sharing this one!
The final two things on my list are a couple of blog posts I read this week that just really gave me a huge change of perspective, and I absolutely love when that happens. I enjoy being challenged and growing. This one from Jon Acuff (of Stuff Christians Like and Quitter fame) made me take a step back and remember how madly I am loved by my Creator. And this one from Relevant Magazine gave me a lot to think about where relationships are concerned. Both of these are great reads, you won't regret it.
Stay tuned next week to see what random jewels I find to share with you!
Over the last 6 or 7 months I have found that my circle of friends has expanded like whoa. That means a lot. And I found myself thinking quite often, "What are these people in my life for? What are they here to show me? To teach me? What am I supposed to be learning from them, about myself or the world around me?" Then, it struck me this morning how absolutely self-centered my thinking has been. These people might not be in my life for me. I might be in their life to show them something. Maybe they aren't here to help and grow me, maybe I was put in their path to help and grow them. Then I became sad and started thinking about how many opportunities I may have missed to invest in others just because I was so wrapped up in what they were possibly doing for me.
How radically different would the world be if we stopped thinking about only ourselves?
The kingdom wasn't created for us, we were created for the kingdom.
This morning, after checking Facebook (you know it's the first thing you do too), I began checking my email. I'll admit to being one of those people who doesn't delete anything. Yep...one of those people. Waiting for me among the weeks of unopened mail was a post from one of my favorite blogs, SingleRoots. The title indicated that it was about loneliness. Admittedly, I rolled my eyes. Because, really? Another blogpost about loneliness and singledom? Ignoring the hipster in my heart telling me that it was so cliche and I should move on, I read it anyway. And it pointed me to the truth.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Philippians 4:8 God is trying to drive a point home in my life. So often I think we can easily fall in to believing the lies that The Enemy whispers to us. At those times, it is so important to stop and give yourself a mental slap in the face. Check yo' self, befo' you wreck yo'self, if you will. As Paul urges the church at Philippi (pretty sure I butchered that one), whatever is true, we should remind ourselves and meditate on. Now, I'm not just talking about the absolute truth of scripture, and God's love. I'm also talking about the truth in the many situations we face daily. The little things that we can so often allow to unnecessarily get under our skin and mess with our heads and hearts (which we also need to guard) also need a dose of truth. Things aren't always what we are led to believe. I don't know about you, but I constantly have to check myself and I am so thankful that God revealed His truth to me today. Take that, inner hipster.
Thanksgiving is the day when most Americans will gather together with family and friends and ruminate on all the blessings they are thankful for. Laying here in bed this morning, I began to do just that. While I am in awe of the new blessings the Lord gives me each and every day, the holidays make me even more aware of them and I begin to count them. It seems though, no matter what kind of year I've had, I am always overwhelmed by the goodness and grace of my Savior. This year, the past two really, has been no exception.
In scripture it says, in Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." The Lord has faithfully proven this to me on more than one occasion over the last two years. I've dealt with abuse, depression, divorce, unemployment, financial crises, moral missteps, death, and numerous family issues. Some might look at that list and wonder how anyone could see any goodness in that. Some might look at that list and pity me. It's true that I have experienced enough heartache to make even Annie stop singing about tomorrow, but I have also experienced so much love and personal growth. I am so filled with joy when I think of all the goodness I've experienced in the midst of these trials that my heart is bursting at the seams. I want to shout from the rooftops how great my God is and how much I love Him! I think I'm beginning to understand why David wrote the Psalms.
Through all the bad, I've renewed friendships, created new ones, and learned how important they are. If you are reading this, and you know who you are, I want you to know that God used your fellowship to help me through some of the darkest hours of my life. I am thankful for each of you, and praise God for allowing me to know each of you, however long we may have together. Out of unemployment, I was given not only a job that I love, but a godly employer and co-workers that feel more like family. I don't think I ever fully appreciated being employed until I wasn't anymore, and now being given such a wonderful job that I love and wonderful co-workers, I can say that this area of my life is one that I am truly excited about every day. I love the work I do and I can't wait to see what God is going to do with it. In my financial crises, I've been shown what God can do with less, and to be content with less. More than that, to rejoice in having less. I've learned how to manage my finances wisely, with biblical principals. Through death and family trials I have learned to love and value the (sometimes messy) relationships I have with them. I've grown closer to them, I can't even begin to calculate how valuable that is and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I'm especially thankful today that my brother, who wasn't able to be with us for the holidays last year, will be here today. He is alive, healthy, happy, and free from his chains. I can't praise God enough for that.
There are so many more blessings I could list, but I'll end with my greatest and that's this: through everything, I have learned to lean on God and trust him fully with my life. He has faithfully proven to me over and over that he is good, that he loves me (and you too, more than we can fathom), that he will never leave me, that he will never fail me. It's not always easy to lay my burdens at his feet, but when I finally do my Savior comes through in ways I never imagined possible. My greatest blessing is knowing my Heavenly Father, the personal relationship I have with him, and being able to share that with you.
I hope your holiday is filled with warmth, love and fellowship with those dearest to you.
I can't believe I almost overlooked it! April 14th marked the one year anniversary of The Brighter Side. I gotta say, I'm in awe of what the Lord has done. He took little old me, who has always hated writing, and sparked this passion in me to write. What started out as something to share and grow my photography has morphed in to something else entirely. Part journal, part comedic commentary, part devotional. As I said, I'm just in awe of Him. I fully expected to abandon this blog within 2 months of starting it, and here I am a year later...still clacking away on my keyboard. I haven't written as many posts as I would have liked to, but I didn't give up either. I searched for a verse to adequately sum up what this anniversary means to me, and as usual, the Lord pointed me to exactly what I was looking for: "May the glory of the Lord endure forever; may the Lord rejoice in his works--" Psalm 104:31. It is my sincere prayer that the Lord rejoices at what he has accomplished in and through me, and that he continues to use me and my little blog to bring blessings and beauty into the lives of others.
***Note: I started this on Friday, but the subject matter is so important, I took my time completing it.***
It's been a while since I've posted anything, but I just haven't really been inspired lately. I've been having a major case of writers block I guess. Lucky for you though, something inspired me today. Jesus.
Today is a day that Christians observe as the day that Jesus was crucified. Denied and betrayed by his friends, beaten, ridiculed, and nailed to a cross to die by the very people he loved and came to save. I've been trying to think of a way to relate this to our lives, an example I could give to help wrap your head around the love, faith, and obedience it took to make that sacrifice, and I thought of a few. Each time I wrote them it seemed to trivialize what Jesus did. What God did. Even now, my words seem so weak.
God knew what was going to happen, Jesus knew what had to happen, and each of them, Father and Son, out of love followed through. Jesus was fully God, but also fully human. He prayed not once, but twice for this burden to be taken from him...for his dad to make it stop (Matthew 26: 39, 42). He was afraid and anguished over what he knew was coming (Matthew 26: 37, 38). It was obedience and love for his Father and His Fathers creation that helped him see it through to the end. He even prayed for us (John 17: 20-26, Luke 23: 34), the ones responsible for His death, the ones He came to save.
I can only imagine the way it must have felt. Mary, watching her son, her baby boy, being beaten and ridiculed. Watching him die and wanting nothing more than to take his place, to make the pain and hurting stop like any mother would want to do for her child. Yet, she was helpless. I can only speculate that God maybe felt the same way, the only difference being he could have stopped it, but knowing that in this sacrifice He was saving His people, His creation. And Jesus, enduring it all, because He to knew the greater good of bringing us into a direct relationship with God would far outweigh His short, albeit excruciating, suffering.
That is love. (Romans 5:8, John 15:13)
It's a beautiful thing. We no longer have to be slaves to our sin. We all sin, every last one of us. We aren't worthy of the gift of mercy and grace that God poured out so extravagantly for us. It says in the Bible that the punishment for sin is death (Romans 6:23). That always scared me as a kid because I never got past the first part of that verse. But, the second part is the best part! That sacrifice was made for us through Jesus! We don't have to suffer because of our sin anymore. That sacrifice was made for all of us, too. It's just a matter of believing, having faith that Jesus is who He said he is, and in what He accomplished on the cross and in His resurrection.
Please keep in mind that I am in no way a biblical scholar or a pastor. I'm not perfect and never will be. I'm simply a passionate believer who loves Jesus. I've experienced the freedom, hope, peace, healing, and joy that comes from a relationship with God, and I just want as many people as possible to be able to experience that for themselves.
Ok, so I know that the title of this post (sorta) comes from a Christmas song. However, this post is not about Christmas. It's more like an update/holiday post. "What holiday" you ask? Only the best holiday ever! Established 27 years ago and occurring annually...it's MY BIRTHDAY! I know I share it with like nine million other people, but that just means we are having one huge, global party baby! So, let's get this started.
First, my update. You may remember my 12 by 2012 list that I posted back in October. I am proud to say that I accomplished quite a few things on my list. The one item on my list that I was incredibly excited to do was to plan a mission trip. You can read about it here. I decided that I wanted to go to India and I registered with Adventures In Missions. Unfortunately, the trip I wanted to go on, which was scheduled for April of this year, got cancelled. This turned out to be a blessing though. I am no where near my fundraising goal, and the money would have been due by this coming Wednesday. With the holidays and some unfortunate family events, I got a bit side tracked. There is a bright side to this story, however. There is another trip to India in August of this year that I am registering for. I need to be fully funded by June. I believe this is absolutely possible and I am incredibly excited! I am still selling prints of some of my photographs to help raise money for my trip. If you want some neat art prints and to help me reach my goal, you can visit my store here. I'm also toying with the idea of designing t-shirts to sell also. More on that as it develops.
Now, about my holiday. I've got two projects in the works to celebrate another year in my life. The first, and the one I am most excited about: I have decided to establish a new tradition. Each year on my birthday starting with this year, I am going to perform a number of random acts of kindness equal to my age. So this year, on my birthday, I intend to perform 27 random acts of kindness. They can be small or they can be grand. I can't wait to start showing love and kindness to complete strangers! The second project, which is kind of a big undertaking, will be to take a photo a day to chronicle 1 year in my life. So from my birthday this year until my birthday next year, I plan to take one picture of anything that captures the essence of that day in my life. Soon, I'll start a gallery and post a link to it on my blog. This year is gonna be spectacular...I can feel it!
I know, I know...it's not Friday. Sorry friends, I was too busy being awesome yesterday. So here is Five Fave Friday...today! Everything featured is pinned here.
I just found out I have been using bobby pins backward my whole life.
Kevin McAllister. Who doesn't love this kid? Classic holiday film.
So true. No bigger turn off than incorrect spelling and grammar.
Don't worry...this isn't the post where I tell you that my chick on the side said she's got one on the way. That's coming next week. J/K, J/K...I hope you guys know the song, otherwise, this got awkward really fast. If I were a super hero, I think my super power would be creating awkward situations. Then, my arch enemy would just get so uncomfortable they would leave. Non-violent, no bloodshed, no messy spiderwebs to clean up...just incredibly uncomfortable to watch. Alright, we got off topic way fast. I told you guys a few weeks ago that I would write something worth reading soon, so here it is!
What am I confessing, you ask? Are you ready for this? It's gonna get uncomfortable (guess I wasn't too far off topic). I am confessing my faith in Jesus Christ. I'm a Christian. I love my Jesus, and I can't get enough of him. I would hope so dearly that this is clear by my actions and the example I set, but it needs to be said aloud. I have long believed that the very best way to share God's love and His promises for us is through actions. Being the hands and feet of Jesus. And I still do believe that, but I have come to realize that God's word needs to come in to the equation too. Actions may speak louder, but words carry so much weight.
I've always shied away from conversations about my faith for many reasons. I'm not a scholar or a theologist. I don't know the Bible inside and out. I'm always scared that someone will want to debate me, and I am terrible at debating. I also worry that I may unintentionally present the Lord as unholy, or say the wrong thing and cause someone else to stumble. Mainly, because I don't have all the answers. I've realized though, no person on Earth has all the answers. No one is perfect. It's impossible. That's why I believe, because I'm not perfect. You don't have to be perfect to accept Jesus, that is what is so simple and so hard to understand sometimes. You don't change for Jesus, Jesus changes you. We don't live for God, we live with God. I want to share my faith because I have been blessed beyond measure, and I want everyone to be able to experience that. I want to share my source of hope, joy, love, peace, and patience. I've been selfish for too long.
Well, hello you guys! You're probably looking around and thinking "Hmmm...something's different. I just can't put my finger on it..." I totally changed things up around here! It was about time. I taught myself some new graphic designs skills (it sounds more impressive than it really is, technically I don't think it could be called graphic design). I am in love with the new header! Isn't it adorbs? I am so proud of my shiny, new blog. Very basic, but...I made it myself!!! What do you guys think? Do you like the new header/color scheme? I always love to hear from you. Also...some things to chew on: I'm considering starting a weekly advice feature. People come to me constantly for advice. Not just friends, but total strangers too. I'm a magnet for broken-hearted and lost people. What are your thoughts?
Here it is...another edition of Five Fave Friday! I realize that this is just a cop-out and I promise I'll write something real very soon. Pinky promise.
Adele is Cosmo's cover girl for the month of December. She is absolutely flawless. Yay for curvy girls!
Hahaha!
Mental Floss magazine is probably the best thing I have ever discovered.
Awesome temp tattoo from Fab.com. Maybe stocking stuffers?
Talk about a throwback to my childhood. How I do miss 3rd and 4th grade.
I bet you thought I forgot, didn't you? Well, I didn't! I was too wrapped up in my Harry Potter marathon to concern myself with creating this post until I was finished. I watched all 8 films, back to back. This is going to be my new Thanksgiving tradition I think. Also, in case any of you are wondering, I am so Team Harry & Hermione! They should be together, J.K. Rowling! Ok, now on with my purpose. I was going to do a special Black Friday edition of Five Fave Friday, but I'm not really a Black Friday kinda girl. So, here are my faves from the week of 11/8-11/25. They are pinned here on Pinterest. Enjoy!
HelloGiggles is on the list 2 weeks in a row! They finally have their shop set up. Yay!
I <3 Fred Savage. Who doesn't?
Totes adorbs! Trying it this weekend.
Hahahaha! I would own this. I think I'll make a bank that says "I'm saving up to buy a bank that says 'I'm savin' up to buy a unicorn'"
Here you go...my five favorite things from the internets this week!
One of my all-time fave websites now has a forum! I will waste even more time now. If you haven't checked out HelloGiggles, go there...now.
Create a cat-eye effect with scotch tape and eyeliner. As soon as I find my scotch tape I am trying this!
My print that got selected for sale on Society6!
What a great motto for a purpose driven life.
Creative and attractive way to give cash for a Christmas gift.
All of these great things can be found on my Weekly Faves board on Pinterest. Be sure to check out my other awesome boards while you are there. Also, a shout out to my #1 fan...you know who you are! Stay tuned for some special Thanksgiving posts next week as well as a special Black Friday edition of Five Faves. Have a fabulous weekend you guys!
I have noticed something happening with women my age that really confuses me. Over the last week I have heard at least 5 different women talk about how they hate crying. Well, it doesn't really confuse me...I understand why. I used to feel that way too. I didn't want anyone to see me cry, least of all my family. It was easy to control before I hit puberty, but once that happened all hell broke loose. I devised a plan where if I needed to cry, I would hold it in and then go take a shower and cry in the shower. I know...that was messed up. And I'm pretty sure I wasn't fooling anyone, I mean, every time I watched Titanic I took a shower. Surely someone connected the dots. So ladies, I totally relate to not wanting to cry.
I think though, it is the feeling of vulnerability that we hate, not the act of crying itself. We are told by society that we need to "toughen up" or "never let them see you sweat". Or perhaps it's that "Ugh...I can't believe I let him/her/them/that get to me!", that feeling of letting someone in so deep that a negative action on their part can evoke that response in us. But you know what, it's ok. It means that you really, truly cared about something or someone passionately. That is a good thing, as a matter of fact, it's the best thing. And furthermore ladies, we were created to be compassionate, relational, emotional creatures. When we allow ourselves to journey to that vulnerable place we are embracing our true, beautiful nature. Not to mention the act of crying is very therapeutic and good for relieving stress.
